From my journal dated December 16, 2002:
Joe and I decided to try to do a little more Christmas shopping today. We decided to go look around Bed, Bath & Beyond for gifts, so I drove the easiest way – which took us right by the cemetery.
As we drove by, Joe looked over and said, “Hi, Jason.”
Whoa! I wasn’t expecting that! Tears came to my eyes so fast I could hardly see to drive.
I know he’s not actually there. I know just his earthly body is there. Where do we go now to tell Jason “hi”?
© 2011 Rebecca R. Carney
Grief: One Woman's Perspective 
I love your question about where do you go to say Hi. I believe if you say hello in your heart that is good starting point. Thanks for bringing up a great question!
I totally understand that.