I’d like to share an article I found recently entitled “Stifled Grief: How the West Has it wrong.” In the article, the author states some of the common expectations by others of someone who has suffered a deep loss and is walking through deep grief. She then contrasts those expectations with the reality that those who have “walked the walk” have actually experienced. In her opening paragraphs, the author states:
Western society has created a neat little “grief box” where we place the grieving and wait for them to emerge fixed and whole again. The grief box is small and compact, and it comes full of expectations…that range from time frames to physical appearance. Everyone who has been pushed into the grief box understands it’s confining limitations, but all of our collective voices together can’t seem to change the intense indignation of a society too emotionally stifled to speak the truth. It’s become easier to hide our emotional depth than to reveal our vulnerability and risk harsh judgment. When asked if we are alright, it’s simpler to say yes and fake a smile…(http://www.huffingtonpost.com/michelle-e-steinke/stifled-grief-how-the-wes_b_10243026.html)
If you’re a grammar person, you may have to overlook some of the obvious errors. Please don’t let the need of a good proofreader cause you to miss the excellent content. You can find the article here: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/michelle-e-steinke/stifled-grief-how-the-wes_b_10243026.html.
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